Are we overthinking the idea of "I never want to settle" ? 09/28/2016 Girl meets boy. Girl likes boy. Girl sleeps with boy. Boy continues to sleep with girl. Boy disappears. This has become the new norm. Our “norm” in no longer normal. Either you've been there and/or had a friend going through the extreme casualness of hooking up these days. We're skipping steps constantly as our generation becomes universally impatient. Lines are regularly crossed and the "not so casual behavior" has become the "new casual." Dating has been replaced with meeting up at bars
Girl meets boy. Girl likes boy. Girl sleeps with boy. Boy continues to sleep with girl. Boy disappears. This has become the new norm. Our “norm” in no longer normal. Either you've been there and/or had a friend going through the extreme casualness of hooking up these days. We're skipping steps constantly as our generation becomes universally impatient. Lines are regularly crossed and the "not so casual behavior" has become the "new casual." Dating has been replaced with meeting up at bars
"Don’t be a prude, but also don’t be a slut." 09/15/2016 Gender inequality is still happening today. Change is hard. Change will always be hard. As a 24-year-old female, I have inevitably experienced firsthand as well as witnessed sexist remarks and behaviors at school, work, restaurants, bars, hospitals, the grocery store, and even in my neighborhood. I recall this one time I was walking back to my apartment from my car. A stranger a few apartments down started yelling at me during my walk. I had never seen him before. He was older; I would guess
Gender inequality is still happening today. Change is hard. Change will always be hard. As a 24-year-old female, I have inevitably experienced firsthand as well as witnessed sexist remarks and behaviors at school, work, restaurants, bars, hospitals, the grocery store, and even in my neighborhood. I recall this one time I was walking back to my apartment from my car. A stranger a few apartments down started yelling at me during my walk. I had never seen him before. He was older; I would guess
When a guy says, “I’m not looking for anything serious” 09/09/2016 It’s not easy to maneuver the shitshow that is modern dating. We’re a group of hypocritical being who are sensitive in their own individual way. We have guys that are openly sensitive followed by the guys that project their sensitivity and insecurities through offensive behavior. It is hard to be clear on anything these days and that is the problem. We aren’t clear, about anything. Sometime we’re clear, or at least try to be. We stay in contact with multiple people ensuring that there will
It’s not easy to maneuver the shitshow that is modern dating. We’re a group of hypocritical being who are sensitive in their own individual way. We have guys that are openly sensitive followed by the guys that project their sensitivity and insecurities through offensive behavior. It is hard to be clear on anything these days and that is the problem. We aren’t clear, about anything. Sometime we’re clear, or at least try to be. We stay in contact with multiple people ensuring that there will
Why people are what keep you going in times of loss 09/02/2016 Losing someone you love and care about is a devastating part of life that we all must face at some point. Death is an inevitable fate of life. Some of us go through it at a young age, while some don’t face it until they are older. The level of difficulty ranges between people and the strength of the bond you had with that person. I experienced death at a young age but was too young to fully feel the entire process. I was sad and felt bad but I was also very young and it was a grandmother I
Losing someone you love and care about is a devastating part of life that we all must face at some point. Death is an inevitable fate of life. Some of us go through it at a young age, while some don’t face it until they are older. The level of difficulty ranges between people and the strength of the bond you had with that person. I experienced death at a young age but was too young to fully feel the entire process. I was sad and felt bad but I was also very young and it was a grandmother I
7 Types Of Ways Girls React To Breakups 09/01/2016 Millennials are constantly hooking up and breaking up. Break up's come in many forms these days.One person involved could experience a break up while the other person just got bored and didn't see a point in further communicating. We're all scared and we don't always know how to rationally deal with someone entering and exiting our lives. Losing someone you regularly communicated with hurts and there are numerous ways girls choose to cope. It is easier to bypass negative feelings by filling your
Millennials are constantly hooking up and breaking up. Break up's come in many forms these days.One person involved could experience a break up while the other person just got bored and didn't see a point in further communicating. We're all scared and we don't always know how to rationally deal with someone entering and exiting our lives. Losing someone you regularly communicated with hurts and there are numerous ways girls choose to cope. It is easier to bypass negative feelings by filling your
5 reason’s he’s not texting you back 08/23/2016 Texting: the preferred method of communication for most young people. Personally, I hate it. If I meet a new guy and we start a conversation through text, I hand my phone over to one of my friends. If you’re a guy and I’ve texted you it most likely wasn’t me. I prefer the old school communication, the in-person real life type of shit. There are all these rules and thousands of different ways to read into a text, punctuation marks, and length of time in between responses. I think it’s a crock of
Texting: the preferred method of communication for most young people. Personally, I hate it. If I meet a new guy and we start a conversation through text, I hand my phone over to one of my friends. If you’re a guy and I’ve texted you it most likely wasn’t me. I prefer the old school communication, the in-person real life type of shit. There are all these rules and thousands of different ways to read into a text, punctuation marks, and length of time in between responses. I think it’s a crock of
Rejection doesn't always invite the need to place blame 07/21/2016 Accepting denial is hard. When you invest time and feelings (knowingly or unknowingly) it is hard to believe that the other person doesn’t feel the same way. You remain hopeful and optimistic, only to maximize your inevitable disappointment. Whether we are being ghosted, benched, stood up or flaked on its hard to fully accept that this person felt that we were not worth more.It hurts and it is hard to admit and fully accept, especially when we do care and truly wish the person’s feelings were
Accepting denial is hard. When you invest time and feelings (knowingly or unknowingly) it is hard to believe that the other person doesn’t feel the same way. You remain hopeful and optimistic, only to maximize your inevitable disappointment. Whether we are being ghosted, benched, stood up or flaked on its hard to fully accept that this person felt that we were not worth more.It hurts and it is hard to admit and fully accept, especially when we do care and truly wish the person’s feelings were
The 7 deadly guys 07/08/2016 Pride. Envy. Gluttony. Lust. Anger. Greed. Sloth. These are the seven deadly sins, scary. But not nearly as scary as the seven deadly types of guys you are bound to encounter in your late teens and early twenties. The Troublemaker. The Manchild. The Player. The Toxic Guy. The Ultimate Fuckboy. The Boy That Loves Games. Mr. Right But Wrong For You. 1. The Troublemaker This guy is as smooth as they come. He will constantly keep you guessing. He is usually the center of drama and gets a rise out
Pride. Envy. Gluttony. Lust. Anger. Greed. Sloth. These are the seven deadly sins, scary. But not nearly as scary as the seven deadly types of guys you are bound to encounter in your late teens and early twenties. The Troublemaker. The Manchild. The Player. The Toxic Guy. The Ultimate Fuckboy. The Boy That Loves Games. Mr. Right But Wrong For You. 1. The Troublemaker This guy is as smooth as they come. He will constantly keep you guessing. He is usually the center of drama and gets a rise out
6 Red Flags: He's Just Not That Into You 07/07/2016 Although heartbreak stems from a number of reasons such as cheating, lying and dishonesty, there are occasions when the other person is upfront. Acting on feelings alone, we tend to ignore red flags in hopes of explanations and reasoning behind behaviors we should be completely acknowledging. Getting rejected is hard and completely sucks. It hurts and it is easier to ignore the feeling of disappointment and fill that void with hope. Don't be delusional. Be aware and be conscious. Listen to red
Although heartbreak stems from a number of reasons such as cheating, lying and dishonesty, there are occasions when the other person is upfront. Acting on feelings alone, we tend to ignore red flags in hopes of explanations and reasoning behind behaviors we should be completely acknowledging. Getting rejected is hard and completely sucks. It hurts and it is easier to ignore the feeling of disappointment and fill that void with hope. Don't be delusional. Be aware and be conscious. Listen to red
